My name is Vrimj.
This is my attempt to serve as a tour guide for people new to the land of polyamory or facing new challenges within that land.
The goal is to serve a a tour guide. That means offering simple clear advice about what places are pleasant to visit and what places are dangerous and best avoided.
This is not the only path, but it is an attempt to suggest a way to make it to a happy poly relationship. You can branch off from here and take side trips to places I have not gone, but I want to help by at least laying down a trail.
In the end this is a complicated metaphor for something that is essentially a relationship style guide. It will only really work for me, but I am hoping that sharing the ideas will help you develop your own style.